Friday, February 17, 2023

Two "Simultaneous" (four eyes) Cataract Surgeries

 
You know why I say "THIS IS FOR THE RECORD" all the time?????  Because if I don't write it down, you can be darn-tootin' sure that both Astrid and I will actually forget that 1) it happened, 2) when/where it happened, or 3) the details of how it happened.

So, THIS IS FOR THE RECORD.  And, this is how they're doing it now in the Netherlands.  Cataract surgeries, that is.  

For Astrid, it's been at least a year, maybe two, that her eyesight has become close to intolerable.  She was seeing almost everything in gray tones, especially outside, and had horrific vision on sunny days.  Bike riding was becoming hazardous for her, so she stopped.  Many more details, like hating the laptop...but she finally went to the very modern eye clinic in nearby Papendrecht to get an appraisal (YES, she had cataracts which needed to be removed) and then a date for surgery:  January 25. 

And, as if she needed someone to sympathize with her, at the same time I was getting my eyes checked for new glasses when, guess what, the orthoptist (my prism specialist for double vision) said I had cataracts!  That's why since falling at the Georgia cabin on November 18 my vision suddenly changed for the worse:  the fall had shaken loose my low-lying cataracts sitting in the wings for years.

So, it was MY turn to visit the same eye clinic for an appraisal and a date for surgery:  February 2 (8 days after Astrid's, but with a different surgeon).  And they do both eyes at the same time here!  It's brilliant and we both can't imagine doing it any other way.

So, that's the story and here are the images, lest we forget.  HA!

Not what I'd call flattering, but, for the first week, we had to wear "goggles" at night.
Can you tell that, for each of us, this was within hours of our surgeries?
At least we were both smiling.

And speaking of "within hours," this was me at supper, 2 hours after my surgery.
It was the thickest fog I've ever experienced in my life because of the salve on my eyes
(which Astrid's surgeon did not put on hers)!  I really couldn't stop laughing! 

Astrid's surgery was on a Wednesday.
Two days later, Friday, she finished knitting this fisherman sweater
and wore it to our afternoon Happy Hour here at our senior center.
She saw brilliant RED for the first time in a long time!

For me, my far-sighted vision is now almost perfect
except for the fact that I still have double vision.
So Astrid made me an eye-patch out of one of her goggles
for watching TV, so I can see it in uni-vision.
I still use my old glasses for close-up work.

On March 2 Astrid has her checkup and new prescription (at the same clinic as our surgeries), after which she can order her new glasses from an optician here in town.  For me, it's March 9, after which on the 14th I have an appointment with my nearby orthoptist who will order the prism glasses.  

Did I mention that while all this was going on, we had our 13th wedding anniversary on February 5 and celebrated it in style this week on Valentine's Day (VD), February 14th...something we think we'll start doing from this year forward.  Because VD is NOT a Dutch thing like it is in America, there's nothing hectic/rushed when a restaurant here celebrates it (we were there for 3 hours!): 

1.  Love is...'setting the table together'
Arancini--red beet risotto stuffed with a beet ragout and aceto balsamic syrup.

2.  Love is...'sharing together'
Platter with various appetizers:
Spring roll with goat cheese and cranberry chutney.
Rose of marinated salmon with a fennel salad.
Wrap with smoked beef and egg.
Mini soup with purple carrot and roasted onion.
Steak tartar with silver onions.

3.  Love is...'a game that two play and both win'
Cupid skewer with grilled rump steak with creamy pepper sauce,
parsnip puree and carrot batons.

4.  Love is...'something beautiful'
Stewed pear pudding with a stewed pear sauce,
strawberry sorbet ice cream, meringue and tuile.

How's that for topping off these first days and weeks of 2023!



10 comments:

  1. We both can see again and that is a miracle. I see in colour and HD and I can see what I do at the laptop. And the operation itself was easy-peasy, before I knew it was done....
    The dinner was just amazing and so cozy and so tasteful. Yes, we will make this a tradition and we add it to the other traditions we have. That video, I have to laugh every time I see it. I am happy that I took it, even wondering if I should, but this is "THE LAUGH"..... famous for some people. And indeed know we never forget when the eye-surgery was, not I will ever forget it for it gave me back part of my life. IHVJ.

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    1. For the record, Astrid, means we will always remember exactly what and how it was! What I love most is that it happened to both of us almost exactly at the same time and will change our lives forever. YAY for technology and medical science that make such miracles possible!

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  2. Wat fijn dat bij jullie alle 2 de operatie's zo goed verlopen zijn met alle 2 goede resultaten
    Alle 2 gefeliciteerd en een fijn weekend toegewenst

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    1. Thank you most kindly, Marjolein. Even though it is now considered an easy and successful surgery, it's still a surgery nonetheless! We're so thankful all seemed to go perfectly well. My surgeon said it couldn't have gone better, for which I'm very happy.

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  3. Glad you both are seeing clearly again! Belated best wishes for your anniversary too. You certainly celebrated it well.

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    1. Thank you on all counts, Marie. We're glad to be alive and mostly well at this point in our lives. :)

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  4. I’m glad to hear your operations all went smoothly. It is amazing when the world returns in technicolor. However, I‘m also wondering why glasses instead of permanent contacts?

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    1. We're thrilled, Ted, that things are still going smoothly even before our checkups at the end of our months (a week apart). Both of us have conditions (for me, it's double vision that can't be corrected by permanent lenses) that require glasses, but we knew and understood that before our surgeries and are totally fine with it. The "standard" package we got was covered by our insurance, so we're happy campers.

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  5. Beautiful celebration of your anniversary! Love to you both and congratulations! I am so happy your surgeries are done, and now you are enjoying better vision. We are fortunate to live in such a time as this (for things like this!).

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    1. Thank you, Ruth, and you are so right. We have a friend in Flagstaff who is an eye surgeon's assistant and so knows just about everything related to the eyes. She says they still frown upon doing both eyes at once in America because of the risk of complications, but says doing them both at the same time would save them time and appointments on their scheduling calendar! We told her that the surgeons here are very aware of the complications and will immediately stop after the first eye if they suspect any risk. In our case, we're DELIGHTED both eyes were done at once!

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